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DON’T LOSE FOCUS
Overtime, I’ve heard some men I know complain about their wives and I begin to wonder why. One day, I summoned courage to ask one of them why they always complain even when their wives are doing their best to run the home well. He opened up and told me that truly he appreciated his…
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TRAIN UP A CHILD
The scripture says “train up a child in the way that he should go and when he’s old he’ll not depart from it”. Proverbs 22:15 also says “children just naturally do silly, careless things but a good spanking will teach them how to behave”. The above scriptures reminds me of my experience with a young…
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DON’T SETTLE FOR LESS
Just a short one for today. One afternoon, my long time friend visited me and I was so pleased to see her after a long time. I offered her a drink and made her comfortable then we got talking. I listened to her with apt attention as she told me about how her past relationships…
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SPEAK THEIR LOVE LANGUAGE
Sometime ago, I was opportuned to converse with a married couple of about 7 years who were on the verge of divorce. I was so concerned and did not want them to go their separate ways. I asked them what was going on and why they wanted to go for a divorce. The man first…
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LITTLE THINGS THAT MATTER
Just a short one for today. Dear married people, it is okay to take your spouse out and have fun. It’s okay to set out a particular day for a date night. Going out for date nights should not just stop at the courtship stage; it should also continue when you’re married. Spend time together…
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PREMARITAL SEX
I met a lady one time when I went for an official work at Abuja. She happened to work in a firm close to where I worked. I liked her because she was jovial and open minded. One faithful day, we went out to have dinner and we discussed random topics. I then seized the…
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WHO TO MARRY
I have discovered that in our world today, many get married to the wrong people. Sometimes it might not necessarily be their fault. Some people are only interested in the wedding day; they do not prepare for the marriage proper. They spend their courting stage only preparing and planning for the wedding and forget that…
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WIVES, BE AN ASSET NOT A LIABILITY
Today, I’m particular about the ladies and this write-up refers more to our ladies. Few days ago, I was with a married lady; we were just discussing various topics relating to marriage. You know na, we single ladies are eager to learn what we can about marriage before entering into itπ. As the discussion progressed,…
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THAT MAN NEEDS RESPECT
During one of my random conversations with a married woman, I was appalled with the way she talked about her husband with so much disdain. She divulged a lot of information ranging from how she contributed more money to the running of the home while her husband contributed less because of his low income job…
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SHE IS NOT YOUR PUNCHING BAG, YOUR MARRIAGE IS NOT A BOXING RING
Sometime ago, I just decided to take a stroll to a friend’s house one evening. We were outside gisting and trying to prepare something to eat. Suddenly, we heard one of her neighbours shouting. I tried to make a move to know what’s happening but I noticed that she wasn’t even concerned. I then asked…