relationship and marriage

Just a short one for today. Dear married people, it is okay to take your spouse out and have fun. It’s okay to set out a particular day for a date night. Going out for date nights should not just stop at the courtship stage; it should also continue when you’re married. Spend time together and get re-energized and if the money is there, go on vacations so as to spend time away from work, noise and so on. Marriage is not a death sentence. Have fun, crack jokes, play, pray, bathe together. Make sure you compliment your spouse, say nice words. When your spouse returns back from work, place a light kiss on his or her head; it will not kill you. Sometimes, bring home a gift for your spouse no matter how little. It shows you care. Don’t be a boring spouse.

Husbands, it is okay to help in the kitchen sometimes, it is also okay to help do the chores when you can. Husbands, stop frowning always, shouting and putting fear into your wives and children. Learn to talk to your spouse in love; understand each other because with understanding some arguments can be avoided. Wives please learn to dress well; dress to please your husband. It’s not everytime you’ll tie wrapper or wear “adieu mama” T-shirt. Smell well, put on perfumes, make your hair but don’t leave it for 4 months before you loose and wash. It doesn’t take much from you. All these little things we think don’t matter actually are very important.

These are some little tips that can spice up your marriage. God bless you

Your relationship and marriage coach,

Chiamaka Opara